How can you find out what you are naturally good at?
Question: I've been living in Peru now for a year and well what can I say? I've tried teaching English but my grammar and spelling is too bad. I studied two years in the states computer networking technology and worked on Sony laptop computers while I was in school. I am now a "tech" here in Peru but I'm doing the opposite then what I want. I downloaded a virus onto my computer which required a re installation just last week, all because I wanted to update my tools (antivirus software). Then this morning I downloaded some windows updates which made the computer loop (rebooting) which required another repair from the disk. I'm on the black list right now and I'm trying to figure out, what is my talent? it's like I suck at everything I do. Or I'm under a "damned" curse! Please help!!!
Best Answers: How can you find out what you are naturally good at?
just because you are not good at what you are doing now means that you "Suck at Everything you do". It's just that you haven't find the right career. Think about what you like to do, ex. if you love to draw/art you should consider something like Architecture, Interior Designer, Fashion Designer and anything else that involves drawing. I could have tried telling you what you could go for if you would've included some hobbies. Good Luck!
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Trail and error. It may be that, like a very large proportion of the population, you are not *naturally* good at anything, and have to work at it. Such is life. At the start, nearly every experience is a learning experience and you get things wrong an awful lot - but you have to pay attention and improve, and in five/ten years time, you will be so good at it, it comes like natural. Very little in this world comes easy.
I held off on having any weight and such taken for the first hour so we could breastfeed and bond. My son was delivered directly onto my bare chest which I didn't think I would like but I loved it. He was checked right there on me then covered with a blanket and he breastfed nearly instantly. What I didn't like when family came later was having to pass him around and share him, I just wanted to enjoy my baby in peace. Make sure you are 100% comfortable bearing it all and showing a whole new side of yourself to everyone in the room. If you hold anything back or have any reservations it can stall labor. Even as much as holding your bladder can cause that to happen so pee often. I planned a natural hospital birth but had to be induced after my water broke and labor didn't start so that plan was out the window. I had 16 hours of pitocin induced back labor and took an epidural 7 hours in. I hope to have my next one at home with a midwife. I just couldn't get comfortable in the hospital, I felt like I needed to ask permission to do everything or to even move. Good luck and I hope it happens for you.
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